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Haling Manor in Roundy's Time

Obituaries

I, many a time, stood in assemby and spoke of life and death and the inevitability that the fate of each and every one is: to pass away. I told them, I told you, that the bird of time has but a little way to fly and lo! it is already on the wing. Of course we all understand that, yet somehow we can not believe it. But death happens and those we cherish go. It is a truth, as old as time: indeed the Ancient Egyptians had an interesting view on this sadness... they said that when one spoke the name of a departed loved one, then the departed person lives again. So, as we read the following, they too live again.

Ray Rahman, sadly, died all too young of a heart attack in September 2001. He taught Maths at the school and then went to teach in Saudi Arabia where he became fluent in Arabic. He decided to return home, as a heart condition developed, to be with his family and to spend more time with them in semi-retirement but within weeks was taken from them. He was a gentle man and a gentleman.

Doreen Reynolds was one of the longest serving members of the Office Staff who was the kindest and loveliest of lades. Sadly she recently passed away after a series of battles, over many years, against several forms of cancer. It is hoped that a tree will be planted in memory of her next spring on the newly developed school site. I cannot remember ever hearing a complaint or cross word from her and the number of children she patched up as the first aid lady is impossible to calculate. Everyone loved her.
Bill Butcher was an English teacher at the Manor for many years. Before training he had been in industry and served in the Royal Navy rising to Chief Petty Officer. At the farewell for him when he retired due to the onset of cancer he got well tipsy and took me to one side to say farewell and said, "You know, Michael, none of us is invulnerable." That has always stuck in my mind. He was a good man and no doubt is bawling the angels out for their punctuation errors at this very moment. Home is the sailor, home from the sea...
Peter Fletcher was the First Deputy when I joined the school and was a wonderful support. I was delighted when he secured the Headship of Norbury Manor Boys School and saw the school through to its closure at which point he retired. Sadly his retirement only lasted for a few years before he was also taken by a heart attack, and he had suffered for some years from Angina. He was a good friend and a fine teacher.

Liz Kloppe was a teacher of English and the School Librarian, initially in Pampisford, and then in Kendra. She was one of the most enthusiastic of staff and kept the thousands of libarary books in perfect order. Sadly she too succumbed to a tumur/cancer and had little time for a dreamed of retirement. She was a lovely lady, much missed.

Stephen Prince was a pupil of the year of '98. There is always a mystery when someone young, gifted, beautiful and without any evil gets taken from us. Steve Prince was such a one. He was a great friend to those who knew him, a fine athlete with a reputation for being a really good footballer, but mostly he is remembered as one who just loved fun, and being fun. All who were in in Year of '98 will remember him and those close to him miss him beyond measure. Many will be sad to know that after a battle with cancer he fell as its victim at an early age. But in our memories he will be young for ever and like young soldiers will not grow old as we grow old.
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